Vixea Manplus actually so I'm I'm gonna do a couple of just practical things everybody's life is different you don't have to your life doesn't have to look like mine but it helps if I can just show you some of the ways that this idiot has been able to try to live out sacrificial love it's not it does not a set a rulebook there's no way to just say these are Manplus the things every guy has to do you guys are gonna leave here and go into your own varied lives and it's crazy out there and I don't know what you're going home to I don't know what chaos you're going home to or what great wonderful .