What makes people fall in love? We find someone we are in love with nike air max 90 uk sale , but two years later we wonder what we ever saw in them. No one can say this hasn’t happened to them, whether it was a high school crush or our first romance. Unrequited love is harsh. IT leaves us feeling rejected. Our feelings are so strong that we don’t understand why ‘He doesn’t love me back’.


Understanding what love is, and isn’t, can help us cope with the euphoria, and rejection that comes with love. Most important, if someone doesn’t fall in love with you nike air max white mens , it’s not because you are stupid, poor, old, ugly, not smart enough, fat nike air max black leather , too tall, too short, or unlovable. It is just because they didn’t have the right chemical release.


The research on love is extensive and covers various disciplines including, physical, chemical, environmental nike air max 2014 mens , psychological, spiritual, and many sub-disciplines.


The Mind


If you are single your mind is constantly hunting for another partner. It will react suddenly if it sees a suitable partner. You may instantly fall in love with this person. Each of us has a list of priorities, a check list, that includes the criteria we are looking for. This is why it is so important to heal emotionally and re-define your beliefs and core values before entering into a new relationship after a painful divorce or breakup. The mind needs to be reprogrammed. Hopefully, you’ll stop looking for the unhealthy aspects and replace them with healthy personality traits in your future mate.


People who believe in soul mates or the one may never recover from a breakup or divorce. Their mind has been programmed to believe that they can never have another meaningful and fulfilling relationship. This is not only false nike air max 2015 mens , it is a self destructive belief.


The Chemical


Many people with relationship problems have an addiction to the chemicals that create the euphoric feeling of love. That feeling that makes you believe that you’ve found the perfect person. That you have located your soul mate and they will never hurt you, heal you of all your pain, and teach you to live happily ever after.


In fact, scientists are finding that the same chemical process that causes addiction is responsible for our ability to fall in love. We are wired for romance from the time we are children. The existence of human pheromones was discovered in 1986 by scientists at the Chemical Senses Center in Philadelphia. A human VNO has also been found in some, but not all people. This is why smell is so important and may be more important that visual attraction.


The chemicals involved also include adrenaline, dopamine nike air max 2016 mens , Oxytocin, Vasopressin and serotonin. These drugs change the way we think. Dr Marazitti, a psychiatrist at the University of Pisa, discovered that serotonin levels of new lovers were equivalent to the low serotonin levels of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder patients.


What Happens After Love


In most people these drugs return to normal levels within two years. That is why we start seeing the socks on the floor, bad habits, dirty dishes nike shox current mens , and stack of bills. The theories as to why this happens vary. One common theory is that the drugs keep the male and female attached long enough to create a child and raise it until its chances of survival increase. Then the male seeks another mate.


However, when the couple is emotionally mature they can enter a deeper, more fulfilling phase of love. The introduction of Eros love, or passionate and lustful love is replaced by storage and Philia love. These mean affection and friendship, or virtuous love. These loves give way to a deeper love, agape nike shox tlx black , which we translate to mean true love rather than attraction or friendship.


Suzanne James has 10 years experience as an online life coach and using the telephone to facilitate her coaching strategy. She has vast experience helping clients reset their core values, make changes in their communication and relationship styles, and take back control of their lives. There is a wealth of information on her website: http:www.suzannejames


You won't find "talkability" in any dictionary. But it has everything to do with your personal marketing program. This article explains what it is and how it can help you grow your business.


Let's start with a definition:


Talkability (noun) ? 1. The ease with which a product or service can be talked about. 2. The likelihood that a product or service will be talked about.


Ever experience a product or service so incredible, so above and beyond the norm, that you couldn't wait to tell someone about it? That's talkability. Talkability is more powerful than ?noteworthy? and more interesting than ?interesting.? It lives in the 'remarkable? neighborhood.


So what does it have to do with real estate? Well, if you realize that most real estate business comes from referrals nike shox turbo uk , you'll begin to see the true power of talkability in helping you grow your business.


Increasing Your Talkability Factor
To increase the talkability of your services, you must offer something so unique it's virtually impossible for people to keep to themselves, something they cannot resist talking about. A first step is to ask yourself the question, ?If I were my own client, what would be remarkable to me??


This is the fun part. It's called the ?What if? game. First, turn off your internal critic nike shox r4 mens , that little nagging voice that says things like ?That's silly? or ?That will never work.? Next, make a list of ?What if? statements about your services:


What if I found a way to offer free interior design consultations to buyers, redeemable for 30 days within move-in?



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