But I do not lay all of the blame of this on Bella. If Jacob had dealt with it well he might now not have needed to live via all of the pain. Jacob saved coming again. He knew that Bella did not surely love him. He knew that she had picked Edward and became a idiot to think she turned into going to change her thoughts instantaneous. What he must have achieved become reduce her out of his existence and moved on. He showed how needy he was and let Bella's picks be the deciding aspect in if he was going to be satisfied or no longer.